Is having a pregnant member of the bridal entourage such a big deal? Nowadays, it seems that some brides view a pregnant bridesmaid or maid of honor as a big etiquette issue? If you look at the heart of the issue, though, it’s really about shame. The shame of having a pregnant member during the ceremony might send rumors that one of the bridesmaid is a single mother. The shame that perhaps the bride isn’t consorting with good society or that she has friends that are not so careful. Regardless of whatever reason it holds, some brides just need to get over it!